I worked with someone years ago who was crazy about her boyfriend and invited me to their wedding. She was stunning, truly drop-dead gorgeous, and I couldn't wait to meet her partner, as he was obviously going to be a model at the very least.

I was surprised. He was shorter than her, had crooked teeth and was really skinny. But she shone when she looked at him.

And within minutes of chatting with them both, I could see why. He was funny, effortlessly charming and clearly loved her. His appeal was he was authentically himself.